We’re baaacccckkkk! It has been quite some time since my last post. I’m sorry ya’ll between school, work, and personal things my blog had to take a back seat for a second. None of that matters, we are back and honey….we are BETTER!

Today’s post is all about wrapping up loose ends before 2020 hits. We are a couple weeks away from starting an entirely new decade. I don’t know about ya’ll but im trying to start this new year/decade on a higher note than the last. Lately I have been focusing on the areas in which I need improvement. What toxic ways do I have? What negativity do I bring? What do I as a woman, professional, sister, friend, significant other etc… need to improve? I have been checking tf out of myself lately. I don’t know who needs to hear this but…You are not perfect. You have toxic ways? You have things you need to work on? Get tf to it! Grow, become better, check yourself…..get your shit together.

I have had a heavy focus on relationships that are not in a great state. Who am I at odds with? Why? What role did I play? I have been mending a lot of my relationships. Not to have them back, not to kiss nobody ass (because honey that surely aint wtf I do), but to have peace in my life. I have looked at what role did I play in these situations, was I wrong? If so I make my peace with it so that I can rid my mental of it. I am a person that suppresses things so I don’t have to deal with them….moving forward I don’t want to be that way.

In 2020 I’m not living how I did in previous years. It’s not new year, new me….I’m not with the whole oh I have to change because it’s a new year. No, I am changing because at the age of 25 I simply cannot have the same ways I had at 21,22, hell even 24. You have to mature, grow and evolve. Look at how you have lived previously….if you see something in you that you don’t like CHANGE IT. Get rid of the people that mean you no good. Finish school or hell go back and get another degree, travel, date, start that business, invest in yourself….do whatever you need to do to be the best version of yourself.

Ask yourself a questions “Who, and where do I wanna be a year from now, 5 years, 10 years?” Then ask yourself this follow up question “What am I doing in my life now that it preparing me to be that person?”…..The answer to those questions will tell you exactly what changes you need to make.

Ya’ll be blessed. Drink water, start a business, mind your own….See ya’ll next Sunday.

-Xoxo

Junie B.